How to Remember Your Wedding Day: 7 Essential Tips for Brides and Couples
- Sarah Lizabeth
- May 12
- 3 min read
Have you ever heard couples say, "My wedding day flew by so fast!"? As a wedding planner, I hear this all the time—and honestly, I get it. Weddings are packed with joy, excitement, and endless details, making it easy to feel like it all went by in a flash. So, how can you truly slow down and remember your wedding day?
In my latest podcast episode, (The Snagged Podcast) I shared a story from my childhood theatre days and how recently seeing my daughter perform brought up deep emotions about the fleeting nature of special moments. Weddings are exactly like a magical performance—you plan meticulously, experience heightened emotions, and suddenly, it’s over.

Here are 7 tips from my podcast to intentionally savor and remember your wedding day:
Wedding Planning Tip #1
Pause and Look Around: Take intentional moments to absorb your surroundings. Notice your loved ones' smiles, joy, and excitement; these moments become powerful memories. Whether you're at your ceremony, cocktail hour, or reception, these pauses create lasting impressions.
Wedding Planning Tip #2
Mind the Small Details: Don't overlook the details you carefully chose—the wedding flowers, table décor, wedding cake, bridal gown, bridesmaids dresses, and even the reception lighting. They're essential to the story of your wedding day, each detail carefully curated to reflect your personal style and vision.
Wedding Planning Tip #3
Engage Your Senses: Use all your senses to anchor moments in your memory. Notice how your wedding dress feels, listen closely to your wedding playlist, savor your wedding cake, and enjoy the scent of your floral arrangements. Each sensory detail reinforces vivid memories.
Wedding Planning Tip #4
Intentionally Step Away: Plan brief moments away from your guests with your spouse. Whether you sneak out during sunset photos or find a quiet corner during your reception, these moments to connect privately are deeply meaningful and memorable.
Wedding Planning Tip #5
Tell Yourself “Remember This”: A quick mental note to remember significant moments greatly improves your recall. Whispering this reminder as you walk down the aisle, exchange vows, or share your first dance helps solidify these emotional snapshots.
Wedding Planning Tip #6
Write It Down ASAP: Shortly after your wedding, jot down highlights and special memories. Capture the funny speeches, emotional vows, or the moment you saw your spouse at the altar. This simple act significantly helps lock memories into place.
Wedding Planning Tip #7
Take Mental Pictures: Alongside professional photos, mentally capture key moments throughout your wedding day. Whether it’s the look on your parents' faces, the joy during your first dance, or laughter at your reception, mentally storing these images creates vivid memories you’ll cherish.
Additionally, hiring experienced wedding photographers and videographers is invaluable. Professional photos and videos will preserve your wedding day memories beautifully, allowing you to relive them over and over. From capturing candid moments to stunning portraits, your wedding photography is one of the most critical investments you'll make.
Remember, your wedding venue, the decor, and even your guest list all play a crucial role in shaping your memories. Be mindful and intentional in each decision, from choosing your vendors to selecting your wedding timeline, ensuring each detail contributes positively to your overall experience.
By using these intentional strategies, your wedding day won't just be beautifully planned—it will be beautifully remembered.
To learn more wedding planning tips and tricks, find the best wedding planning checklist, and explore our recommended wedding vendors, listen to the full podcast episode on The Snagged Podcast. For a complete, stress-free wedding planning journey, join my free masterclass at WedPlanPro.com and discover how to plan the wedding of your dreams effortlessly.
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About the Author
This post was brought to you by Sarah Lizabeth—a wedding planner, educator, and storyteller on a mission to change the narrative of the wedding industry. With two decades of experience and a heart for service, Sarah is redefining what it means to plan a wedding by helping couples focus on what truly matters: connection, clarity, and a celebration that reflects their real love story.
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